cooking., can you call it meditation call you call it a chore., a play., or a drill ., same person ., different moods at diffet times., and all good too
today the body while making dosas.., got his message., a marriage is a lot lkie mkaking dosa., you need to get the mind batter right too think and cloddy., the dosass do not come clear too thin and runny and without stiffness., you haveshreds
the mentality is important, you need the right consistancy for marriage. what if it is thick ., pour a litte cool water and smoothen it. what it if is very thin and runny then you add flour. you need a little humble salt to make it taste better
then comes the hot roasting stone, the marrage sometimes can be a tapasya., some heat is needed., but too hot .., you have trouble too cold you have problems., just right., what if it is too cold., turn the heat up …, that left to your imagination what if iti s too hot .., cool it down., with loving words of water., what then you pur the batter., fast .., and slow .., meditative and mechanical., for a uniform smoothness a little bit of indulgence .., the fat of oil or butter or ghee a little bit of retreat ..,
like the pan on top marriage is not an exhibition ., after it is ready., you spoon it out .., and eat with comdiments., thus the boring dosa becomes a meal .., the comdiments are the different expeirnces of marriage., so is cooking a meditation., or a chore., marriage like a dosa or dosa like marriage., here is the ingredients., and you can alwayts improbe with that you have .., make a tasty meal ., perhaps next time biryani is made.., somthing better comes up .,